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How to Deal With Depression: Lessons from the Man of Sorrows (Part 1)

By Bob Gonzales on Thu, 09/03/26
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Depression is one of the most common forms of human suffering. In a typical year, approximately 21 million American adults and another 5 million adolescents experience a major depressive episode. For many, the effects are severe enough to impair work, school, relationships, and daily life. The economic cost alone is estimated between $200 and $300 billion annually. Yet those numbers cannot measure the true burden. Depression also affects spouses, children, friends, and churches who often struggle to know how to help those they love.

The word depression comes from a Latin term meaning “to press down.” It describes the experience of being weighed down by sadness, discouragement, or despair. More severe forms may include changes in sleep or appetite, difficulty concentrating, hopelessness, and even thoughts of death.

Most of us have experienced depression to some degree. Others have walked through far darker valleys. The Bible does not ignore this reality. In fact, it provides profound wisdom for understanding depression and responding to it faithfully. No one teaches us more than Jesus Christ Himself, whom Isaiah calls “a man of sorrows and acquainted with grief” (Isa. 53:3).

Three questions deserve careful consideration:

  1. Is depression always sinful?
  2. What causes depression?
  3. How should Christians respond?

Is Depression Always Sinful?

The simple answer is no.

Church history provides many examples of deeply godly believers who struggled with profound melancholy. The missionaries David Brainerd and Henry Martyn frequently wrote of seasons of depression. The beloved hymn writer William Cowper lived much of his adult life beneath its shadow.

Perhaps the most surprising example is Charles Haddon Spurgeon. Although remembered as one of history’s greatest preachers, Spurgeon candidly described periods when he would weep for hours without understanding why. He could identify no hidden sin causing his sorrow.

Some insist that every instance of depression must arise from personal sin or spiritual failure. Scripture, however, does not support such a sweeping conclusion. While all human suffering ultimately results from the Fall, depression is not always the direct consequence of personal sin.

The clearest evidence is found in the experience of our Lord Himself.

As Jesus approached the cross, He entered a period of profound emotional distress. In John 12:27 He declared, “Now is my soul troubled.” The word translated troubled describes deep inner agitation and emotional anguish. As He contemplated betrayal, humiliation, abandonment, physical suffering, and above all the Father’s wrath against sin, His human soul was overwhelmed.

The burden did not quickly lift. John later records, “After saying these things, Jesus was troubled in his spirit” (John 13:21), immediately before revealing that one of His closest companions would betray Him.

The fullest picture appears in Gethsemane: “He began to be greatly distressed and troubled. And he said to them, ‘My soul is very sorrowful, even to death’” (Mark 14:33–34).

Here we see sorrow pressing heavily upon Christ’s soul. His grief was so intense that He described Himself as “sorrowful even to death.” Although it would be inappropriate to speak of Christ as suicidal, He certainly experienced the crushing emotional weight of living in a sin-cursed world as He faced the horrors of the cross.

This truth has important pastoral implications. If the sinless Son of God experienced profound emotional anguish, we should not assume that every believer who struggles with depression is living in rebellion against God. Such assumptions often create false guilt and deepen the suffering of those who are already crushed. As Ezekiel warns, we must not “make the heart of the righteous sad” when God has not condemned them (Ezek. 13:22).

Certainly, our own sin can contribute to depression. Unlike Christ, we still battle indwelling sin, and poor choices sometimes bring painful consequences. Yet there are many occasions when depression arises apart from any known personal transgression. Like Spurgeon, faithful Christians may find themselves walking through darkness without understanding why.

What Causes Depression?

Depression seldom has a single cause. Personal sin may contribute, but so may chronic pain, serious illness, physical exhaustion, genetic predisposition, neurological disorders, or temperament. Spurgeon’s depression appears to have been aggravated by severe gout. William Cowper likely inherited a family tendency toward melancholy. David Brainerd admitted that he had been “inclined to melancholy from youth.”

These factors deserve careful attention. Christians should never ignore legitimate physical or psychological causes.

Yet Scripture also directs our attention beyond immediate causes to deeper spiritual realities. Christ’s suffering reveals two ultimate causes that often lie beneath our experience.

Satan’s Assault

Jesus described His approaching trial as “the hour and the power of darkness” (Luke 22:53). Satan launched his fiercest assault against Christ during the final days before the crucifixion.

John Piper observes:

What Satan wanted to produce in Jesus was a spirit of despondency that would sink … in resignation [despair] and prompt Jesus not to carry out what his Father had given him to do.1

The devil sought to overwhelm Christ with despair. We can easily imagine the temptation: It is not worth it. Do not go through with this. Your mission will fail.

Christ never yielded.

Believers should remember that the same enemy still seeks to discourage God’s people. Peter warns, “Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour” (1 Pet. 5:8). One of Satan’s most effective strategies is discouragement. He delights in convincing weary Christians that obedience is pointless, that their trials are unbearable, and that hope has vanished.

Recognizing spiritual warfare does not explain every case of depression, but neither should it be ignored. Christians must remain alert to the enemy’s schemes and resist his lies with faith in God’s promises.

God’s Sovereign Purpose

Even more striking is Scripture’s teaching that Christ’s suffering ultimately came from His Father.

Isaiah portrays the Messiah as “a man of sorrows” who “has borne our griefs and carried our sorrows” (Isa. 53:3–4). Then comes the astonishing statement:

Yet it was the will of the LORD to crush him;
he has put him to grief. (Isa. 53:10)

The phrase “put him to grief” carries the idea of causing deep emotional anguish as well as physical suffering. Christ’s sorrow did not occur outside God’s sovereign plan. The Father ordained that His Son would bear not only our sins but also the full emotional misery associated with life under the curse.

One commentator memorably describes Gethsemane this way:

When men’s iniquities were made to fall on [the Messiah], he not only fell into the hands of men and devils, but he fell into the hands of the living God…. This … bruised him, crushed him down to the earth in Gethsemane. This … made him sick at heart, sorrowful even to death, sore amazed, and very heavy.2

The same principle applies, in a different way, to God’s children. Our suffering is never redemptive as Christ’s was, but neither is it random. Like Paul’s thorn in the flesh, depression may be both “a messenger of Satan” and a trial sovereignly permitted by God.

That truth offers profound encouragement.

First, our suffering is purposeful. God wastes nothing. He uses trials to refine faith, deepen obedience, and conform His children to Christ.

Second, the God who ordains the trial also supplies sufficient grace to endure it. Paul’s thorn remained, yet Christ assured him, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”

Satan whispers that the burden is too great and that despair is the only answer. God says otherwise. As Paul reminds us:

God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it. (1 Cor. 10:13)

God never promises that every trial will be brief. He does promise that His grace will always be sufficient.

How should Christians respond?

(This will be the focus of Part 2.)

Notes

1 Future Grace (Multnomah, 1995), 305.

2 Charles Spurgeon, Sermon No. 2224, “The Weakened Christ Strengthened.”

It Is Written Articles

Reposted with permission from It Is Written.

Bob Gonzales Bio

Dr. Robert Gonzales (BA, MA, PhD, Bob Jones Univ.) has served as a pastor of four Reformed Baptist congregations and has been the Academic Dean and a professor of Reformed Baptist Seminary (Sacramento, CA) since 2005. He is the author of Where Sin Abounds: the Spread of Sin and the Curse in Genesis with Special Focus on the Patriarchal Narratives (Wipf & Stock, 2010) and has contributed to the Reformed Baptist Theological Review, The Founders Journal, and Westminster Theological Journal.

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