Elizabeth Vargas’ Yearlong Investigation Into The Independent Fundamental Baptist Church, Airs On “20/20,” Friday, April 8, 10-11 PM ETTry to imagine the pain and humiliation of a teenage girl, just 15 years old, who says she was forced to stand in front of a New Hampshire church congregation and confess her “sin” of being pregnant. She says not only was she forced to confess her pregnancy, but also to ask for their forgiveness – with no mention of the man she says sexually abused her. After all, she says, the pastor told her it’s better than being stoned to death as the bible describes. That is what Tina Anderson alleged happened to her at her ultra conservative Independent Fundamental Baptist, or IFB, Church. The IFB has thousands of congregations across the country, but many people have never heard of it. That was, until another woman, Jocelyn Zichterman, began a public campaign – armed with nothing but a computer and memories of her own alleged abuse that she says church beliefs can foster. And survivors are now coming out of the woodwork, to say she’s not alone.
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NewCan't wait
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NewTo Louise
Your comments about Pastor Phelps and what he did are completely without merit. You’ve obviously believed the young lady’s side of things without giving him any consideration at all. Please, please hesitate for a moment, and consider that maybe Pastor Phelps did the best he could with an incredibly difficult, legal/moral/ethical situation. After having spent three hours with him last summer (just after this story broke) I know his side of the story and it’s compelling. I know that in his shoes, I probably would have done as he did. There are so many laws governing these things, that after considering the legal issues and then the Biblical ones as well, I think he did what he could. Unless you know something new about what happened here, I think you should give Pastor Phelps the benefit of the doubt.
Matt
NewMatt, I have great respect
I have great respect for you. But I think you are dead wrong on this one. Just with the facts out there, there is no excuse for at least some of the things Chuck did. Even looking at how Brian Fuller has handled this will show that there were things that could have been handled better. I think I am being generous. Had He been humble enough to at least admit that last year, this story Friday night might not have even come out. I have followed the facts of this case very carefully and am VERY disappointed in Chuck Phelps.
Aaron,
You are probably right that it wont be fair. But I am hopeful that it will. Elizabeth Vargas is a smart reporter and has done good work in the past. I know it will be painful, but I hope and pray it will at least be fair. But you very well could be right.
Roger Carlson, PastorBerean Baptist Church
NewThe heart of the matter is
For the record, twenty five years ago a similar instance happened in a small fundamental Baptist church. The pastor escorted the man to the sheriff’s office and, after his arrest and trial, the perpetrator went to jail.
"Some things are of that nature as to make one's fancy chuckle, while his heart doth ache." John Bunyan
NewWait a minute...
If you’ve been in ministry any length of time at all, you have been confronted by situations where people can have very fanciful recollections of things that didn’t happen, or were completely different that what they say. It seems to me the women making the most noise here have an ax to grind against fundamental churches.
I know Chuck Phelps personally and he is a decent, godly, gracious Christian man. Please at least give him the benefit of the doubt and refrain from passing judgment until you know ALL the facts.
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NewDeja Vu all over again
Why do people find it so hard to admit that they really don’t know what happened or why?
It’s really not that hard. Watch….
I really don’t know what happened or why.
See, that wasn’t so hard. More people should try it.
I’m sure glad it isn’t my job to sift through a few vague statements, a few second hand reports, and a tanker load of blog blather then pass judgment on cases! (Come to think of it, who’s job is that? Hmm.)
Views expressed are always my own and not my employer's, my church's, my family's, my neighbors', or my pets'. The house plants have authorized me to speak for them, however, and they always agree with me.
NewIt seems that we know what
"Some things are of that nature as to make one's fancy chuckle, while his heart doth ache." John Bunyan
NewThe facts are not established
Your two facts are her two facts and have only been established by people who are speculating as you are here. The facts…at least pastor Phelps perspective has never been given publicly because he is unable, legally, to do so. He has been advised that to go public would be a problem legally. I talked with him and like pastor Carlson, I was skeptical of pastor Phelps but wanted to hear him out. His argument is compelling. No he probably didn’t do everything exactly right but his situation was incredibly difficult.
Newthe police
NewLouise Dan wrote: Aaron, a
Last I knew, just about all of that was in dispute. But I have to admit I have very little interest in the case. I have not paid any attention to it since we beat it to death here last year. As far as I know, there have been no new news reports or any results of investigations. We had conflicting versions of whether it was “discipline,” what sort of role the perp. was allowed in the church, etc., and still do.
The thing with “multiple witnesses” is that you have to weigh testimony not just count it. That’s why courtrooms cross examine and instruct jurors to ignore this or that. I’m not in a position to weigh the testimony. It has not been gathered and presented in way I can handle that way.
I don’t think anybody is saying no mistakes were made on the church’s part, including Phelps. So I guess that’s established. Beyond that, it would be nice if definitive evidence could end all the speculation and we could move on. If 20/20 can achieve that, more power to them. But they have shown a fondness for making anybody who is even traditional (much less Bible believing) look bad. I’m not optimistic.
Views expressed are always my own and not my employer's, my church's, my family's, my neighbors', or my pets'. The house plants have authorized me to speak for them, however, and they always agree with me.
NewLouise Dan wrote: But being
Not true. History is full of examples of people’s testimony being used against them when their words are used contrary to their intent or when the audience is particularly hostile. This is why defense lawyers advise even innocent clients to let the council do the talking. The legal system is very complex and somebody as innocent as lilies can step on a mine by saying the wrong thing at the wrong time… especially to the press.
Views expressed are always my own and not my employer's, my church's, my family's, my neighbors', or my pets'. The house plants have authorized me to speak for them, however, and they always agree with me.
NewHedging her bets
There was a case here not too long ago where several families united against a pastor because of some accusations of sexual abuse, but when the case was investigated by authorities, it fell completely apart, and all charges were dropped. So much for the reliability of multiple witnesses, and now an innocent man who spent a year being harassed and practically tortured has lost his church and his reputation. No one is lining up to repent to him, or make reparations, or help him find a job, I can tell you that.
BTW, it is SOP for those involved in a case to refrain from speaking about an ongoing investigation. Ulterior motives should not be read into silence about an open case.
What was amusing is the reference to how many churches there are in the IFB. If that’s supposed to be a flash of brilliance, none of us are going to need sunglasses for this report. After seeing the CBS report years ago about ‘the dark side of homeschooling’, I’m not going to be putting any stock into the information presented by the news media.
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NewChrist is our example
I ask you. What would Jesus have done? He is our example. The Pharisees wanted to stone the woman in adultery and Jesus said, he who has no sin throw the first stone. This precious broken child (and yes, you are STILL a child at 15), was stoned. She was innocent, yet the Pharisees stoned her. Jesus as our example would not have judged her. A) because she was an innocent victim and B) because he loves His children. For those of you who are choosing right now to stone Tina because you believe either she is lying now or it was consensual, why don’t you look at your own life before throwing stones.
I hate that we will defend a person simply because he is “God’s” man. The problem is — he is “just” a man. No matter how godly someone is. They still make mistakes. They still sin. They are human. And, I believe that this situation was handled inappropriately. Being a pastor does not equate perfection. The best thing that can and should be done with this situation is that Dr. Phelps and even everyone here on SI, recognize the mistakes and aim to make policy changes in our churches so that this situation NEVER EVER occurs again.
NewThrowing stones
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NewMisunderstanding
No one here is defending Phelps because he’s a ‘man of God’. There’s a massive difference between defending someone who is ‘the man of God’ - like what happened at Jack Hyles’ church - and what we’re all speculating on.
"Our task today is to tell people — who no longer know what sin is...no longer see themselves as sinners, and no longer have room for these categories — that Christ died for sins of which they do not think they’re guilty." - David Wells