“Maximus defines himself by the duties he fulfills…. He does not aggrandize himself. Any glory he gets is by fulfilling his duties to those to whom he is responsible. He isn’t trying to impose his will. He is trying to do the will of others in accordance with justice.” - Current
Are You a Gentle Man? Must We Be Weak to Be Gentle?
“I conclude that men should be both strong and gentle—tough and tender, authoritative and compassionate, brick and velvet.” - Andy Naselli
The Manly Virtue of Magnanimity
“I don’t mean that magnanimity is unique to men or that women are not also called to this trait. After all, Witherspoon calls it a Christian virtue. But I do think magnanimity is a virtue particularly befitting to manhood, and that manhood bereft of magnanimity is especially lamentable.” - DeYoung
“Something is sick with the American male”
“C. S. Lewis’s The Abolition of Man is a collection of lectures he delivered out of concern for how the British education system, which was just one presentment of a larger societal disease, was inculcating subjectivity and ‘values’ unmoored from any objective notion of value, order, and virtue. Lewis understood this trend to be a threat not only to British society, but mankind as he knew it.” - CBMW
The Ongoing Decline of the American Male
“The average American man dies five years before the average American woman, in part because of increased death rates among males from opioids, alcohol, and suicide.” - Intellectual Takeout
I’m a Feminist. How Come My Boys Are Such Boys?
“There goes my attempt to raise pacifist, nurturing sons, I thought as they grew to embody many boy stereotypes.” CT
Against Macho Posturing: Watering the Roots of Christian Masculinity
“society and culture have increasingly promoted a full-pronged infantilization of modern man”
Of Boys and Men (and Mothers Too)

“A ship is safe in harbor, but that’s not what ships are for.”—William Shedd
Yesterday my youngest son turned 3.
Our Peter has lived these last three years the same way he came into the world—bold, loud, and larger than life. He’s the family clown willing to do anything for a laugh. He refuses to let his age or size leave him out of what the rest of us are doing. And at three, he already knows two-column addition…as long as the answer is always “69”.
Peter: Mommy, let’s do numbers.
Mommy: Okay, Peter, what is 5+64?
Peter: 69!
Mommy: Good! What is 33+36?
Peter: 69!
Mommy: What is 27+42?
Peter: 69!
I have to admit, it’s pretty rewarding for everyone involved.
